A few words here about friends and friendships for thinking and inspiration.
Two may talk together for many years, yet never really actually “meet”; and two others at first speech are old friends.
If you judge people, you have no time to love them.
Benjamin Franklin said: “I will speak ill of no man, and speak all the good I know of everybody.”
One cannot say one has lost a friend. If a friendship is capable of ending, it is because it never existed.
Try to be governed by your loves and appreciation, not your envy and hates, accept the difference, and find goodness and beauty wherever you can.